The BIG Question For The New Year – Will You Finally Find Love?

So, the big question for this New Year:

Will you finally find love?

A big question, indeed. Successfully answering that question may very well depend on how you answer this question: What are you wiling to do to find the love you’ve long sought?

Are you willing to change your approach to dating? Your views on what love is supposed to be? Your very understandings of relationships?

All this time you’ve been aimlessly wandering through online dating, dating itself, and relationships looking for that special One. Your results are not for lack of effort, but because you mindlessly follow the same dating process (or lack thereof) which leads to the same painful, ever-repeating relationship progression: alone, together, break-up, alone.

Sometimes you feel like you’re going insane. Maybe you are. Insanity is defined as doing the same thing over and over, but expecting a different outcome. You keep dating the same way, but hope that you’ll eventually hit the true love lottery. How’s that working for you? Scores of people pour resources into the lottery approach just to end up poorer and increasingly despondent. Thinking your going to find love by hitting the lottery is both inane and insane.

Are you ready to give up your insanity?

TroyTalks | For Singles is dedicated to replacing this insanity with a different dating and relationship process so that singles can finally realize the deep relationships they seek.

3 things you should know about this blog

First, as of this very moment, I declare dead the traditional relationship framework which says that all relationships have friction and require work. I also declare dead the pretext that says that in order to have a relationship you need to compromise.

    That traditional relationship, which was born in the 1950s, is over! If you desire a relationship of difficult struggle, this blog is not for you.

Second, I will be showing how the traditional dating process where you meet, match, and learn to adapt (to your differences between you and your partner), ends in traditional relationship progression of marry, mismatch, and end in divorce.

    The loose, amorphous dating process you now follow is directly responsible for the failure and misery you experience. If you want to find a deep love relationship, then you need to adopt a completely different dating process and progression.

Third, together, using the Mirror Effect and the 6 Steps, we’re going to lay out a different dating process that begins with matching at the deep heart and soul.

    I actually dislike that word matching, let’s call it alignment instead. The Mirror Effect establishes our new framework. The 6 Steps leads us down a tangible path of definitive dating and superb partner selection.

Most importantly, beginning today, we establish a new relationship standard for which the first law is:

If it’s work, it’s wrong

Meaning that if you’re working at your relationship, it’s the wrong relationship to select. The Mirror Relationship is a pairing that is easy and harmonious. These characteristics are inherent and natural to the Mirror Relationship. No arguments. No friction. No work. Instead, a pairing of deep love and connection.

Is that type of relationship possible? Absolutely! Can you have it? Definitely! You just have to take a different path.

Einstein said that you cannot solve a problem by using the same thinking that was used when the problem was created…

He was right! In order to establish a relationship that is different, we need to think differently. And thinking differently is what TroyTalks is dedicated to:

    A new dating and relationship framework
    A different dating process
    Which establishes a new and successful relationship progression
    That leads to relationships of ease and deep love

It is time for a change!

Welcome To The Deep End Of The Dating Pool

Next Up: Get Serious About Finding Deep Love!

Do you really believe that a few “3 Tips” articles will help you find The One? 3 Tips to Nowhere TroyTalks about getting dating serious.

About Troy

After divorcing from a 22 year traditional relationship of compromise, friction, and work, Troy discovered the Mirror Effect on a first date. The discovery had such a profound impact that it completely changed his views on dating and relationships.

Using the Mirror Effect, when Troy found Judy, their connection was so strong that they fell in love on their first date and were engaged in two months. Together now for five years, they share a deep love relationship of ease and harmony without the work.

Together with Team MM, Troy and Judy work to put people on a path to deep love that doesn’t lead to a 50% divorce rate. Their book, The Mirror Effect: More Than Soul Mates (6 Steps To Finding Your Magical Match Using Online Dating) rebuilds dating and relationships from the ground up to provide a dating and relationship progression that results in the deep, harmonious, frictionless relationships that people are looking for today. Their online dating and relationship website,, is designed to fully integrate the Mirror Effect and the 6 Steps.

Troy can be reached for questions or comments at


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