Anyway, the class was long on “woowoo” and short on tangible. We sat in a circle and made swooshing sounds and moved our hands and arms in a circle every time someone uttered a cosmic insight. Ultimately, the course core was magnetization (laws of attraction), focusing on how magnetize The One to you.
Magnetization combined with the Mirror Effect could be very powerful; however, magnetization alone will likely lead to the same sticky “compromise, friction, and work” relationship as any traditional approach. Magnetization relies on you knowing what to attract, and, frankly, outside the Mirror Effect, almost no one knows precisely what characteristics to attract so that they end up with a superlative relationship.
One interesting tidbit of information from the course was that most of the people who find soul mates don’t watch TV — the advice being to stop watching television in order to find your soul mate. Try as I might I couldn’t unravel how watching television would keep you from finding a soul mate. Since I didn’t watch much television anyway, I never bothered to solve the riddle.
Until this morning…
Last night as I was headed for bed, I happened to pop open Huffington Posts’ Love & Sex column. The list of articles included:
- I’m into women after my divorce–Four, to be exact
- 10 things i need my ex-wife to know after coming out as a gay man
- 9 failed marriage proposals that will make you cringe
- 16 red flags men an women ignored until it was too late
I see these articles as dating and relationship junk food. Easy to eat, but absolutely zero nutrition. Far from being serious dating or relationship information, these articles are formulated to momentarily grab your attention, then disappear faster than a lobbyist under the bright lights of a congressional investigation.
These types of articles are the television that the soul mate instructor was talking about.
This is not to say that every article in the Love & Sex column is fodder. There is good information in there as well. You must learn to separate the good food from the bad.
After 50 years, there are no new revelations on the current relationship, so these pop-sensational articles are all that people can write. They aren’t serious material. Yes, of course, there is always some tidbit of truth in the message which yields just enough weight to keep the article from floating frivolously into the atmosphere; but, no one is going to develop a university course based upon the ideals from How Your Dog’s Breath Determines Your Lovelife. The soul mate instructor’s point was that these types of articles distract and misinform you about finding deep love.
You can escape the typical dating and relationship fate and find your own deep love relationship. I truly believe this. To do so, you need to stop watching television, so to speak. If you want to succeed where everyone else is failing, then you need to become a student — you need to learn why people are failing and search for answers to the problem. The sooner you get serious, the sooner you’ll find what you’ve been long searching for — a relationship that will make you the happiest you’ve ever been.
How Do You Get Serious About Finding Deep Love?
Aren’t you tired of the rejection, bad dates, and failed relationships? Do you feel like Tinder, match.com and eHarmony are wasting your time and money? It’s not your fault. You’re not succeeding because the game is rigged for you to fail, no matter how hard you try!
The fatal flaws in dating and relationships prevent you from finding the love you so richly deserve. The only way you’ll find deep love, have an amazing no-work relationship, and be 1 in 6 genuinely happy relationships is to take a different path than the one that’s been used for decades. If you want change, you have to make a change!
We know how to do that!
Start with the 3As article. This will highlight the fatal flaw that keeps relationships from being truly happy (which leads to our 50% divorce rate)
Now that you’re beginning to understand the fundamental problems in the traditional relationship, read the Gettysburg Address of Relationships. This article outlines why you need a serious, actionable dating and relationship plan in order to succeed at finding deep love.
Lastly, join us at MagicalMatches.com. If you select the Grand Opening Special, we’ll send you a complimentary paperback copy of The Mirror Effect: More Than Soul Mates which details the Mirror Effect and the 6 Steps to Finding Your Magical Match Using Online Dating.
More About Finding Deep Love
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The Mirror Effect; finding your Mirror; and the simple, tangible 6 Steps start with the How Do I Find A Soul Mate video.
Using the Mirror Effect, when Troy found Judy, their connection was so strong that they fell in love on their first date and were engaged in two months. Together now for five years, they share a deep love relationship of ease and harmony without the work.
Troy’s email box is always open! He enthusiastically encourages you to reach out with your questions or comments. firstname.lastname@example.org.