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If You Want To Find Your Soul Mate, Stop Watching TV

Years ago, as I was beginning to exploring the Mirror Effect, I attended a class on finding your soul mate. Okay, if I’m being honest, the woman I was dating sent me.

Anyway, the class was long on “woowoo” and short on tangible. We sat in a circle and made swooshing sounds and moved our hands and arms in a circle every time someone uttered a cosmic insight. Ultimately, the course core was magnetization (laws of attraction), focusing on how magnetize The One to you.

Magnetization combined with the Mirror Effect could be very powerful; however, magnetization alone will likely lead to the same sticky “compromise, friction, and work” relationship as any traditional approach. Magnetization relies on you knowing what to attract, and, frankly, outside the Mirror Effect, almost no one knows precisely what characteristics to attract so that they end up with a superlative relationship.

One interesting tidbit of information from the course was that most of the people who find soul mates don’t watch TV — the advice being to stop watching television in order to find your soul mate. Try as I might I couldn’t unravel how watching television would keep you from finding a soul mate. Since I didn’t watch much television anyway, I never bothered to solve the riddle.

Until this morning…

Last night as I was headed for bed, I happened to pop open Huffington Posts’ Love & Sex column. The list of articles included:

The list goes on.

I see these articles as dating and relationship junk food. Easy to eat, but absolutely zero nutrition. Far from being serious dating or relationship information, these articles are formulated to momentarily grab your attention, then disappear faster than a lobbyist under the bright lights of a congressional investigation.

These types of articles are the television that the soul mate instructor was talking about.

This is not to say that every article in the Love & Sex column is fodder. There is good information in there as well. You must learn to separate the good food from the bad.

After 50 years, there are no new revelations on the current relationship, so these pop-sensational articles are all that people can write. They aren’t serious material. Yes, of course, there is always some tidbit of truth in the message which yields just enough weight to keep the article from floating frivolously into the atmosphere; but, no one is going to develop a university course based upon the ideals from How Your Dog’s Breath Determines Your Lovelife. The soul mate instructor’s point was that these types of articles distract and misinform you about finding deep love.

Searching for a deep love is serious business. Would you expect to land on Moon Amour by climbing into a rocketship and hoping that it lands in Crater of Deep Love? Not a chance, right? Landing on Moon Amour means studying aerodynamics, orbital mechanics, and astrophysics. Now, I’m not saying that finding love is as difficult as astrophysics. What I am telling you is that finding love takes much more than just reading a few inane articles or another traditional dating and relationship book.

You can escape the typical dating and relationship fate and find your own deep love relationship. I truly believe this. To do so, you need to stop watching television, so to speak. If you want to succeed where everyone else is failing, then you need to become a student — you need to learn why people are failing and search for answers to the problem. The sooner you get serious, the sooner you’ll find what you’ve been long searching for — a relationship that will make you the happiest you’ve ever been.

How Do You Get Serious About Finding Deep Love?

Aren’t you tired of the rejection, bad dates, and failed relationships? Do you feel like Tinder, and eHarmony are wasting your time and money? It’s not your fault. You’re not succeeding because the game is rigged for you to fail, no matter how hard you try!

The fatal flaws in dating and relationships prevent you from finding the love you so richly deserve. The only way you’ll find deep love, have an amazing no-work relationship, and be 1 in 6 genuinely happy relationships is to take a different path than the one that’s been used for decades. If you want change, you have to make a change!

We know how to do that!

Start with the 3As article. This will highlight the fatal flaw that keeps relationships from being truly happy (which leads to our 50% divorce rate)

Next, study the Traditional Dating and Relationship Process and Progression Diagram. This single diagram will raise your awareness of the pitfalls and flaws that have kept you from finding what you’re looking for.

Now that you’re beginning to understand the fundamental problems in the traditional relationship, read the Gettysburg Address of Relationships. This article outlines why you need a serious, actionable dating and relationship plan in order to succeed at finding deep love.

Lastly, join us at If you select the Grand Opening Special, we’ll send you a complimentary paperback copy of The Mirror Effect: More Than Soul Mates which details the Mirror Effect and the 6 Steps to Finding Your Magical Match Using Online Dating.

More About Finding Deep Love

Find other articles on finding deep love see TroyTalks | For Singles and for more about
The Mirror Effect; finding your Mirror; and the simple, tangible 6 Steps start with the How Do I Find A Soul Mate video.

About Troy

After divorcing from a 22 year traditional relationship of compromise, friction, and work, Troy discovered the Mirror Effect on a first date. The discovery had such a profound impact that it completely changed his views on dating and relationships.

Using the Mirror Effect, when Troy found Judy, their connection was so strong that they fell in love on their first date and were engaged in two months. Together now for five years, they share a deep love relationship of ease and harmony without the work.

Together with Team MM, Troy and Judy work to put people on a path to deep love that doesn’t lead to a 50% divorce rate. Their book, The Mirror Effect: More Than Soul Mates (6 Steps To Finding Your Magical Match Using Online Dating) rebuilds dating and relationships from the ground up to provide a dating and relationship progression that results in the deep, harmonious, frictionless relationships that people are looking for today. Their online dating and relationship website,, is designed to fully integrate the Mirror Effect and the 6 Steps.

Troy’s email box is always open! He enthusiastically encourages you to reach out with your questions or comments.

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